There is a lot of information available on line to help you spice up your sex life. If you do a quick search you can find lots of advice about how to increase your odds of getting laid, and how to be a better lover. In looking at all that sex advice, have you ever wondered if you should skip work to have sex?
Getting Laid or Getting to Work?
Suggesting that you and your lover take a break from work to enjoy some special time with each other is a great idea for a number of reasons. Spontaneity is sexy. She is going to be impressed by your unconstrained behaviour. If you’ve been working really hard on the latest project at work, odds are that it has been affecting your personal life.
Maybe you’ve been too tired for sex or to put in the effort it takes to make sure she is really being satisfied. Showing your partner that you’re willing to take a break from work for her demonstrates that not only can you be spontaneous, but more importantly, that she is a high priority for you. This will make her feel special and turn her on.
You can suggest that you both take a day off from your jobs or you can take a day off when you know she isn’t working. Either way you’re showing her how important she is to you, how spontaneous you can be, and how much you enjoy having sex with her.
Build Trust Between You
If you both agree to take time off from your jobs to enjoy each other, you’re going to have a shared secret that will build up the trust between you. If you both agree not to tell anyone about your naughty behaviour and playing hooky then it becomes your little secret. This will give you something to bond over and trust each other with.
No one needs to know that you skipped work in favour of getting laid (but oh how jealous they would be if they did know)! Building trust between you is a sure way to make you feel more connected to each other. Of course, that feeling of connectedness is also going to enhance the sex and make it even better.
Feeling Naughty is Sexy
It’s true. When someone feels like they are being naughty in a sexual way, it makes them feel sexy and it’s a real turn on. However, it’s also true that everyone has a different comfort level of being naughty. Being naughty doesn’t mean that the leather straps or the feathered whips have to make an appearance. Simply deciding to play hooky to engage in some nooky can go a long way to making you, and her, feel naughty and sexy and get you ready for a good time.
Take Your Time
Sometimes, there just isn’t enough time to take your time when you’re having sex. Especially if you’ve been working really hard at your job. Maybe you’ve been putting in extra hours at work which has translated into less hours in the bedroom. Taking a day off to take the time to invest in each other sexually can be really healthy for both of you. When you’re supposed to be at work but you find yourself in the bedroom instead, there’s no excuse not to take the time to linger and show her that you care about her satisfaction just as much, if not more, then your own.
So…do you suddenly feel a cold coming on and a need to call in sick tomorrow?