Have you ever stopped to look at the woman in your life? She has this unbelievably dorky smile with a piece of broccoli stuck in it, her hair is in this style that almost looks like a bird is nesting on her head and she has a pair of jeans on so tight she can barely breathe. What is this train wreck?
This is the woman who loves you. Think back to the beginning of the relationship – you knew she wasn’t just some one night hook-up so you put on the charm. Wine and dine her, make her feel special with the occasional flowers and candy she loves so much and then its time. The night is here and she is laying on the bed with an anxious look on her face waiting for you to show her what’s hiding in those Ralph Lauren boxer briefs.
Finally, you have sex, it’s great, you leave the next morning and she’s still on your mind. Now you’re in a relationship. Let’s face it – it’s 2016 with so many social media outlets, dating sites, and other e-hookup options. Add this on top of every day encounters with other men who sleep around and the other women you’ve been with only for one night, it can be easy to be cynical about love and romance. Does she love me or is she just with me so she’s not hugging her cat every night?
You’re not going to turn to your friends for relationship advice because they may not have a successful one, but mainly because everyone is different – they aren’t you. They may be able to provide some advice, but it may not be as helpful as you need it to be. Women can be vocal about their feelings, but if you’re still a bit skeptical from her words here’s a few love tips to tell if she really loves you.
Remember that train wreck I mentioned earlier? The first way to tell if a woman really loves you is her change in her appearance. Women love to dress up and pile on tons of make-up trying to impress every one of her hundreds of followers on Instagram and even when she meets you in real life, she will do the same.
If you notice she is toning it down a bit and no longer piling on the eyeshadow and foundation, she is no longer trying to impress anyone but you. She could care less about drawing attention from guys down the street but only holding yours. If you mention you hate the make-up she wears and you love it when she shows her natural beauty and she does it, she loves you.
The Little Things
The second way to tell if she really loves you is her interest in you and how she shows it. Women believe that men are supposed to throw a lasso up to the moon and pull it down to Earth for her as a way to show their love, but it’s much more subtle for women.
If a woman is interested in you and loves you, she will do the things she knows you will enjoy and she will begin to show it every day. Cooking, letting you watch the game with your friends, leaving messages for you encouraging your conquests and telling you how amazing you are etc. The more she shows you in little ways, the more she loves you
Last way to tell if she really loves you is listening to her words and watching her actions. She’s walking around without a bra on, telling embarrassing stories about the love advice she’s taken and laughing so hard she snorts. Women drop their guard completely when they are with a guy they love, you see the real her and she’s so comfortable she tells you she loves you every day.