Sex is great. It’s fun and it feels good. It’s a workout for the body and the mind, releasing those feel good endorphins that keep you satisfied even after the activity itself has come to an end. Even mediocre sex is enjoyable but it shouldn’t have to be that way.
There are many factors that affect how much a woman will enjoy any particular sexual encounter. A feeling of comfort and safety are paramount to a woman being able to enjoy herself to the fullest. Sex is an important part of any healthy romantic relationship and sexual satisfaction should be top of mind for both partners. It is absolutely true that it is generally much harder for a woman to reach climax and orgasm than for a man and it’s good to know the best sex positions to help a woman achieve the goal of climax.
Sexual Satisfaction Takes on New Forms
Spooning is not just for cuddling. This is a great position for women for a number of reasons. It increases skin to skin contact which can help increase that feeling of connectedness. It uses rear penetration which can be deeper than frontal penetration and it allows both of you to keep your hands free. It is much more challenging for a woman to reach climax through penetration alone so having free hands to rub the g-spot is great. It doesn’t matter whose hand it is!
The Flatiron is not just for straightening hair. The sex position commonly referred to as the flatiron is where the woman lies face down on the bed with hips slightly raised. As in spooning, enter from behind, but this position will ensure a snug fit, making you seem even bigger than you are.
The Pretzel Dip is not a game night snack. In this position the woman lies on her right side while you kneel, straddling her right leg. She curls her left leg around your left side. This will give the same sensation as Doggy Style but allows you to maintain eye contact which increases intimacy and thus the satisfaction of the woman.
Doggy Style should be in everyone’s book of the best sex positions. It allows for deep penetration which is often what women need. Minor modifications, like having her go from hands and knees to propping up on her elbows, changes the angle of penetration to suit her needs. This also keeps your hands free to roam around her body and rub her clit to aid in her satisfaction.
Last but certainly not least – let her get on top. When a woman gets on top of her man she takes control of many things. Speed, angle and depth can be controlled by the woman to help her get what she wants. She should be using more of a back and forth motion when she rides you like a stallion as opposed to up and down but the great thing is she can play around until she finds exactly what angles and motions work best for her.
Here again both of you have your hands free to roam and rub wherever you like. A variation of this position is the Reverse Cowgirl, where she gets on top but faces your feet. This changes up the angle of penetration while still allowing her to control the speed and still keeps all those hands free.
The best sex positions for women allow for deep penetration and give the woman some control over pace and angle of penetration so keep these in mind and add these sex skills to your repertoire for increased sexual satisfaction.