Women can feel like a mystery to men, especially when it comes to the bedroom. Fancy positions, complicated maneuvers and charts that are more confusing than helpful can make it seem nearly impossible to learn about. Thankfully learning how to please a woman isn’t as difficult as all of that. With a few simple tips you can make your love life easy and your girlfriend is satisfied at the same time.
Talk To Her
There’s a much frowned upon maneuver men use called the “poke and hope.” Don’t just poke and hope that you’ll find her g-spot if you try hard enough. The fabled g-spot is usually located about two inches inside towards the front, making a slightly adjusted missionary position your second best bet of hitting it. Your first best bet is to ask her for some advice, because odds are good that she can help you find it faster than you can.
Give In To Some Oral
It’s not every guy’s favorite thing to do in bed, but agreeing to go down on her as often as you’d like her to return the favor is a good way to show that you’re dedicated to her having a good time. It’ll help your new relationship last and keep your sex life active at the same time.
Don’t Ignore Her Clit
The clit is the powerhouse of female orgasms and it’s important to remember to give it a little attention. It may surprise you to hear that most women don’t get off on traditional penis in vagina sex without a little assistance. Women have far more nerves concentrated in their clit than any other sexual organ on her body, so reaching down to give it a little rub while you’re going to town will definitely get her all hot and bothered.
Engage In Some Foreplay
The night may end in your bedroom, but it doesn’t have to start there. Lean in and whisper naughty promises in her ear at dinner, run your foot up her leg and give her heated glances when no one’s looking. By the time you get home she won’t be able to keep her hands off of you.
Mix It Up
Variety is the spice of life, as they say, and your sex life should be no exception. If you keep to the same routine every time she’s bound to get bored, and it’s a lot harder to get off when you can anticipate every move of of the night before it even gets started. This doesn’t have to mean whips and chains, but you may want to switch up the scenery from time to time. Take her on a sexy weekend retreat to a swanky hotel in the city, or go together to an adult toy store and pick up a little something to bring home. Fireworks may be going off before you can even get out of the car.