It’s something every guy dreams about from the moment they hit puberty: having sex. However, it’s not always going to be like the dirty magazines and porn vids you’ve watched makes it seem like it’s going to be. Sometimes, if you’re unprepared, your first time might be kind of underwhelming. Yeah, you’ll get off, but will it me the memorable kind of orgasm that you remember for the rest of your life. Just because you’re a virgin doesn’t mean you should settle for anything less than awesome. Fortunately for you, it’s not difficult to make sure that your first time is great.
If you know you’re going to be hooking up with a woman, plan ahead. Instead of going into the situation cocked and ready to blow, make sure that you’ve taken steps to ensure that you can last a little while. This means getting yourself off once or twice before the big night so that you’ll have a little staying power. Nothing’s more embarrassing than having sex for the first time and shooting off like a rocket three seconds in. Of course you’re going to go off quick because it’s your first time, but you can make it slightly less embarrassing by taking care of yourself beforehand.
Learn some sexy tricks to please her.
Contrary to the way it might feel, having sex the first time isn’t all about you. You should make sure that your partner has a good time too or you can kiss your chances of ever hooking up with her again goodbye. This doesn’t mean you need to memorize every position and technique in the Kama Sutra, but it is a good idea to know some positions that will give her mind-blowing orgasms.
Work on improving your staying power.
If you want to have a truly great first time, you should learn how to make yourself last beyond five seconds. You might think this is something only sex experts can do, but it’s really not. Any guy can learn how to prolong his orgasm. If you can go that extra mile with your partner she’s going to enjoy herself more, which means that it’s also going to be so much better for you.
Don’t stress out.
It’s completely natural to be worried about your first time performance, particularly if you’re going to be doing it with a woman you really like. Unfortunately, stressing out about it could make things even worse, and this is why the most important thing you can do is just chill. Don’t worry about not being able to last because even if you can’t, you can always do it again later and last longer that time. Being relaxed your first time is going to make it far more enjoyable than if you’re uptight and worried.