While you may not be an infamous “minute man,” you are looking for ways to make your steamy sex sessions last a little bit longer at night. With how much time it can take for a woman to get warmed up it’s a common dilemma with men, especially when you want to be able to get off at the same time your partner does. Having an orgasm before your lady does can diminish the mood, but thankfully there are ways to prolong your enjoyment without bringing it to a premature end whether it’s your first time with her or your hundredth. Check out the list below for great tips on how to last longer in bed every night.
Don’t thrust, press
It’s your natural instinct to thrust as soon as penetration happens because your body is taking over. It’s trying to get you to that end as quick as possible because of our bodies natural desires to procreate, but when that’s not your goal for the night (or you’d at least rather it happen a little slower) you’ll have to fight that urge. Instead of going right for the thrust, take your penis out and press it against her opening. Tease it up and down, pressing it against her clit. Not only will it heat her up fast since the outer areas provide her with more stimulus than the inner ones do, but it’ll provide your penis with a little less stimulus as well. And if you are thrusting and feel like you’re closer than you’d like to be to orgasming, pull out and do a little more of that teasing. It’ll drive her wild and keep you from going off before you’re ready to.
Get her off first
A real gentleman doesn’t make the night all about himself. Paying attention to your lady is important, and it can also help you last longer before your grand finale. Take some time to explore her body and get her nice and warmed up. Women take longer than men to reach their peak, so while you’re on your knees pleasuring her with your hands and mouth you’re focused on something that isn’t stimulating your penis directly but also makes sure you’re ready to get down to business as soon as she is.
If all else fails, squeeze
If you’ve tried a dozen different techniques that are designed to get your partner off and you’re still struggling to hold on, give yourself a squeeze. There are three different areas where you can squeeze to keep yourself from shooting off too soon: the base, the underside of the head, or your perineum, which is the spot between your anus and your testicles. Forming a ring with your fingers and wrapping them around your base may be the most convenient in most positions, but it may also be fun to experiment with letting your lady keep you from going off using any of the above methods while she’s still pleasuring you.