If you feel that she is cheating on you, she probably is. There are some things that you must start feeling worry about if your girlfriend/ wife start doing. Following your guts will always guide you to find out the truth.
How to find out she is cheating?
When she starts not caring about what you do or when and where you go out, then she is probably busy with something and you should figure out what is she busy in as soon as possible. When she doesn’t stay in the same room where you are stay most of the time, she is hiding something from you. If she starts going out a lot suddenly without a convincing reason, she is definitely meeting someone new.
You will find her mentioning a new friend suddenly all the time; you have to make sure that that friend exists! Before following her, look in her mobile phone when she is sleeping or in her computer when she is out; you will certainly find an evidence; a message, an email or maybe a missed call that she forgot to erase or even a picture. Try to talk to her about how busy she recently became and that you don’t spend much time together, if she starts to be nervous and careful about what she says or if she tries to end the conversation fast several times, she is clearly afraid you discover that she is lying.
If she starts to take care of her appearance more than before, know that she is meeting her new guy a lot. If she is ignoring your calls and messages when she is out, it’s probably because she is with him and no matter how many times you call, she will not answer. Start thinking about the last time you had sex, if it has been so long, she is potentially enjoying it with someone else and she can’t enjoy it with you meanwhile…don’t you ever believe she is asleep every time you try to touch her!
How would she act?
She would start avoiding meeting your friends and family because she knows they would realize the truth when they see her, she would also try looking you in the eyes because she thinks you would read what’s in her mind and she would always try to know your schedule to can organize hers. If she is often too nice it’s because she is probably feeling guilty and she is trying to make it up for you somehow, sometimes, it’s the opposite; you will find her angry without any reason. Moreover, she would try to always hide her phone and laptop away from you or give you excuses when you ask her to use them.
If you call her and when she answers you hear unusual silence around her so many time, this is one of the red flags that you woman is cheating. Always ask her where she was and with whom, if she answers with a shaky voice, she is definitely lying and if you keep asking her questions she will keep lying or she will end the conversation. If she is always complaining and talking in a defensive way all the time it’s because she is afraid of getting caught.
When you are out dinning, if you find her looking around like scanning the room more than she is looking at you, it’s because she is afraid that her new partner appears even though she knows he is aware of you; it’s her subconscious that is scared. Always be aware of these signs and don’t give your woman the chance to find a better love with someone else!