Whether in a long term relationship looking to spice things up or make an impactful first impression between the sheets with your new date, there are a few simple tricks that you can employ to boost your confidence in bed.
Boost Your Confidence In Bed – Improve Your Sex Life
Self-confidence is key. The more confident you feel about yourself and your own sexual skills, the better your sex life will be. You’ll spend less time doubting your abilities which interferes with your performance and more time satisfying your partner.
These days everyone knows the benefits of regular exercise. You don’t need to look like a male model fresh from a magazine shoot; you just need to feel good. When you feel healthy and energetic, you feel more confident. Exercising with a woman is an added bonus. Several studies have shown that exercising with a man turns a woman on.
Stop thinking with your brain. Stop stressing that your skills are lacking and don’t worry about any previous partners she may have had. You are unique and you are going to give her a unique experience. When you free your mind, you can be more attuned to your partner. Understanding your partners’ desires, wants and dislikes in bed will improve your sex life.
If you’re not sure what these are, ask. Asking a woman what she likes turns her on. When you are confident enough to ask, you send the message that you are interested in her pleasure as much as your own. Listen to her body if she’s not directing you with her words. Her thrusting and moaning will let you know when she likes something.
Have Better Sex
When you recognize that you know how to turn a woman on, you will feel more confident. Turning on a woman can and should start well before you make it to the bedroom. Talking, touching, and taking an interest in your woman is a sure way to get her juices flowing long before you’re deciding whether to go to your place or hers. Finding gentle ways to caress her are good starting points for turning a woman on. Let your hand linger on hers and gently trace her fingers with yours. Although women are unique in what really turns them on, science supports that most women enjoy having their hair, ears, and neck touched gently.
You should know that it is okay, and often preferred, for you to take your time. Go slowly. This is not a race and the more time you take, the more responsive your woman will be. Turn a woman on by caressing her body from head to toe, using all your built in tools; your hands, lips, and tongue are all effective. Tease her. Before you know it, she’ll be begging you to get on with it.
Never underestimate the power of a kiss. Kissing is a huge turn on. Not a peck here or there but deep lingering kisses. Before you make it to the bedroom, let your passion flow through your kiss. Once you’re in bed and the fun has begun, take the time to kiss her passionately again. This will help her feel and understand how turned on you are and this, in turn, will turn her on even more.
When you accept that you know what you’re doing you can spend less time thinking about it and more time doing it. You know you’ve got the tools necessary to please any woman and you know how to pay attention. Be confident and have fun.