Lying awake at night, and she’s in the bathroom on the phone getting ready to go out with her friends for some drinks before you know it she’s out the door. Not a big deal but it’s the 4th time this week. You roll over in bed and just fall asleep, you have work in the morning.
We all look for some relationship advice when we are completely baffled by our significant other. Women can be a bit confusing but when you start to wonder if this woman is more trouble than she’s worth and you are questioning her intentions, your girlfriend may be bad news.
Don’t Ignore the Signs
There are always signs to let you know right away if your girlfriend is bad news, in speaking with a few men here are a few of the signs they shared:
If she’s selfish she is only concerned with herself and the relationship is automatically put to the side. If she’s putting her needs before yours all the time, she’s bad news.
She’s hungry all the time for your money. Her hands are always in your pants and not in a pleasing way. She’s openly spending your money without any regards to bills needing to be paid, she’s not financially responsible and there’s no way you can take her serious. And if you have to ask yourself, what she does for a living? Run.
She’s always out in the clubs! It’s nothing wrong with hanging out every now and then but when it’s multiple times a week and every weekend you have a party girl on your hands. Why is it bad news? The party girl will stay out all night, come home drunk and wake up at 12 noon the next day on a Tuesday. The party girl is hanging on to the good time so tightly, she can’t commit to anything or anyone but the party. So let her go bro, plus your bathroom smells like vomit all the time, that’s just nasty.
And no I don’t mean a girl who has actually chosen a career in law, I mean the girl who is constantly arguing, yelling and being defensive about everything!!! This is possibly the most destructive sign so pay attention. If your girlfriend is constantly picking a fight with over how you didn’t pick up the bounty paper towels and the great value brand is not good enough, understand she is bad news.
This girl has control issues and she has to control everything. She has no respect for anyone but demands it from every one she meets. Arguing all the time is not an indication of a healthy relationship, she’s bad news for your sanity.
Take my picture!
Now don’t get me wrong, pictures and videos are an excellent way to capture a moment you want to hold on to but if your girlfriend is glued to her phone 24/7 taking “selfies” and posting them online to her followers on each of social media networks she maybe for lack of a better term, an attention whore.
This can be a sign of bad news because she is always looking for outside validation from other people, she may be conceited, have low self-esteem but whatever her issue, she will never be satisfied with just you. It’s called the Kim Kardashian curse, a woman all over social media putting every part of her body out there for the world to see. She’s not feminist strong, she’s an attention whore. Leave her alone.
Don’t ignore the signs, women who depict these behaviors are not for you.