Learning how to be a good lover is not complicated. There is a wealth of sex advice out there but if you keep just a few things in mind, you’re going to improve your skills in bed and ensure a satisfying sex life for yourself and your partner. Just as when you are trying to make yourself look sexy or score a date, confidence is the key to success. Your attitude is just as important as confidence. Sex should be about having fun. Don’t overthink your abilities and just let yourself go with the flow.
Pay Attention To Improve Your Skills In Bed
Women are unique. While it is generally true that most women enjoy having their hair, neck, and ears touched, the details of what turns a woman on and gets her going in bed are unique to each individual. So pay attention. Be cognizant of how she responds to your touches. If she likes something, she is going to let you know; she may thrust her hips or let out a moan. That means you’re on the right track so don’t stop now. Be open to feedback. If you try something that you’re last partner loved but this woman doesn’t enjoy it and she tells you so, don’t interpret it to mean that she doesn’t think you’re any good between the sheets.
Remember, women are unique in what makes them tick. So don’t let this bring your confidence down. In fact, if she’s comfortable enough to let you know she doesn’t like something, you can feel confident that you’re building trust. Respecting her likes and dislikes will help her to feel special which in turn will turn her on. Building trust and intimacy goes a long way to ensuring a positive sexual experience and can lead to exploration down the road but it takes time to build those things. So if you set out to have fun, the rest will follow.
If you keep an open mind and are open to feedback, you’re going to increase the quality of your sex life. If your woman comes to you with something she would like to try in the bedroom, try not to judge her for it. You want her to be open with you about what she wants. Experimenting keeps things exciting so don’t shut her down if she’s feeling playful. Of course you shouldn’t do anything that makes you uncomfortable either but being open minded about trying new things is a good way to keep things interesting in the bedroom.
Heat Up Your Sex Life – The Little Things Go A Long Way
Kissing plays a huge role in satisfying a woman in the bedroom. Before the clothes come off kiss her deeply and passionately so that she can feel the intensity of your desires. Once the clothes hit the floor, don’t stop. It often takes a woman longer to heat up than a man. Use your hands, your lips and your tongue to caress her whole body. This is a great way to explore her and find out what areas she loves to have caressed and which parts she’d rather you avoid. Maybe her legs are just too ticklish but she goes crazy when you slide your tongue along her hips.
Check in with a passionate kiss during sex to ensure that she knows you’re interested in the whole experience. It’s not just about getting your rocks off. You want her to feel connected, cared for, and satisfied. Rest assured, the more time you spend on her, the more she is going to want to make sure that you are also well taken care of.