Nothing fills you with manly pride like watching your woman moaning, back arched and fisting the bed sheets because of you. It makes you feel powerful, especially knowing how elusive that big o can be. If you want to make sure she’s always satisfied, try out some of the tips below.
Start some foreplay
Since figuring out how to make a female orgasm can be difficult, why not go for the slow warm-up? Start the night off right before you even get home by engaging in some dirty talk while you’re out and about. It’ll be all the easier for her to orgasm by the time you’re both alone.
Take your time
Women take a little while to warm up, so take your time with her. If you try to go to fast you might ruin the mood and risk her not orgasming at all. Tease her, stimulate her, and make sure she’s in the right mood by the time you get down to business.
Lock those lips
Speaking of warming up, kissing is one of the most sensual experiences for a woman. Keeping your lips locked while your hands roam is a great way to raise the heat between you two and bring her right to that edge.
Shower her with complements
The littlest things can ruin your lady’s mood. It’s a well known fact that women’s body insecurities can affect their sex drive, and while you’re thinking she looks completely hot she may be worrying that her thighs look too big. Shower her with compliments, let her know how sexy each and every inch of her. Don’t let her doubt for a second what a turn-on you find her body to be and it’ll be all the easier to make sure she’s primed.
Get rid of that tunnel vision
As easy as it is to get caught up in one area at a time, spread your attention around a little. You have two hands and a mouth in addition to your penis, and feel free to use as many of these as you can to increase her stimulation and make her writhe beneath you.
Flip it to traditional missionary style
The missionary position is a classic for a reason: it drives women wild. Because of the angle of your penetration you’re more likely to build up friction against her clit, and playing with her clit is going to be the fastest way to get her off. Just make sure you’ve done some warming up first; too much attention too quickly can overstimulate her, which is just as devistating to the female orgasm as understimulating is.
Pay attention to her body language
A woman’s body will tell you what she likes and what she isn’t into before you even have to ask, so pay close attention as you explore her body. If her breath hitches and her mouth drops open slightly, you’re well on your way.