Whether you can commit or not, you will realize if your girlfriend deserves to be more than just your girlfriend. There are certain things other than sex that can determine if she is good enough for you in the long run.
How do You Know She’s Worth Your Love
Patience is the answer. If she waits for you to fix yourself then she’s worth it. If she can take your shit without complaining, hoping that you will understand her love for you one day then she’s worth it. If she can still be in a relationship with you after you broke her heart then she is definitely worth it.
Trust that you don’t want to lose a girl that loves you so strongly, because you probably won’t find her again. We sometimes think that we will find someone better, but the truth is it’s not a guarantee. If you’ve been in a serious relationship for a long time, take a step right now and examine it closely. No matter how patient she is she won’t wait for you forever.
You will always know if she loves you when she cares about every single detail about you – even the ones that get you yourself bored. She will know how to listen to you, and not because she has to but because she wants to. She wants to know everything that you keep inside, everything that bothers you or even the things that make you feel bad about yourself. She wants you to be healed, she wants you to share everything with her always and she wants to be there for you during the good and the bad.
Don’t believe those who stereotype commitment. It’s never a bad thing to want to stay with one person that you care about. Honesty is always the key to success for any relationship. Keep this in mind when venting and asking for advice from your firends.
If she saw your worst and she is still there, then she is definitely the one. If she enjoys your silence the same way she enjoys your kiss, she is worth the commitment. When she says she misses you, know that she means every word of it! It could seriously hurt her sometimes knowing that you don’t feel how she feels for you.
You Don’t Want to Regret
Commitment is not an easy decision to take, yeah, but think about loneliness. Does it seem easy for you? Do you want to spend the rest of your life regretting letting go of the love of your life because you were too afraid to commit? Think about how much she suffered because of you and how many nights she shed tears and couldn’t sleep because of what you have told her or because how you made her feel – doesn’t it prove her love? Think about how many times you told her that it’s over and she came back to you.
If you let go of someone like that, you will suffer for the rest of your entire life.
Don’t ever blame her for your mistakes. If you are too weak to take a step and commit, it’s because you are scared, it’s never her fault. It’s not because she is not good enough, because deep down you know how good she is. Be strong and have the courage to end her misery and yours as well before it’s too late if you don’t want to commit to her. Live your life and be happy because you only have one.